chore(fleet): repoint stale irv-ml1 refs (10.100.79.3 -> irv-ml1.nh3.internal)

The 2026-09-06 headscale cutover retired irv-ml1's wg0 tunnel IP 10.100.79.3
(now 10.6.110.50). Repointed all LIVE canonical refs to the DNS NAME so the next
move can't re-break them: homepage.href/siteMonitor labels across 25 stack
composes, load-bearing env defaults (asset-engine INFERENCE_HOST, open-webui
AUDIO_TTS_OPENAI_API_BASE_URL, skaldsong SKALDSONG_TTS_BASE_URL, zonos-gateway
ZONOS_URL, dia), homepage services.yaml manual cards (Voice Design Studio,
IRV-ML1), and servers/irv-ml1/ssh-target. Updated the stale 'WG tunnel' comment
to the mesh reality.

Left as-is: README curl-examples and .env.example comments (docs), and historical
mentions in CLAUDE.md/persistent-memory. NOTE: applying the label repoints to the
RUNNING irv-ml1 containers needs a recreate per service (labels read at creation);
deployed .env values are separate from these canonical defaults.

stacks/parakeet/compose.yaml

@@ -50,4 +50,4 @@ services:
       - homepage.name=Parakeet ASR
       - homepage.icon=mdi-microphone
       - homepage.description=Parakeet-TDT speech-to-text via sherpa-onnx (irv-ml1)
-      - homepage.href=http://10.100.79.3:${PARAKEET_PORT}
+      - homepage.href=http://irv-ml1.nh3.internal:${PARAKEET_PORT}